Wednesday, October 13, 2010

a reality check for your relationships and associations!!

Today's post is one I want you
to SAVE and refer back to again
and again. I want you to do the
exercises in today's email as
quickly as possible. The first
answer that pops into your head
is the answer you write down.

Are you ready??  Here we go......

Who are the 5 people you spend
the MOST time with OTHER than
the people you live with. This
includes phone calls, in person
get together's, texts, emails,
etc.

1)_____________________________

2)_____________________________

3)_____________________________

4)_____________________________

5)_____________________________


Now go back and put a (+) next to
their name if they are typically
a positive person and they bring
you UP or put a (-) next to their
name if they typically complain,
gripe and love to share what's
not going well or bring you down.

Now go back and write next to the
(+) or (-) what you think they earn
a year in salary, business
commissions, etc.

I ask you to write this information
down for you to SEE a few facts.....

1) You are the average of the top
5 people you associate with most!

So what does this mean you ask?
Well as you look at your list of
top five associations and you look
at whether they are a positive or
negative energy sponsor AND you
look at their own financial goals,
you have to ask yourself.....

2) Do you want those SAME results
too?

Let me give you an example. Let's
say you have a goal of earning
$10,000 a month. You desire a
thriving business and career and
you want to be joyous doing it. BUT....

ALL five of your TOP associations
earn $3,000 a month. They are great
friends of yours that you've know
for a LONG time. They've seen your
good and bad times and remind you
often of both. They complain
sometimes and they don't always
want to find the positive of a
situation. They are all in
relationships but NOT happily and
share with you OFTEN the traits they
would gladly change about their
spouse.

This is the reality for most, possibly
even you? In the end however, YOU
are 100% responsible for the results
that you're getting in EVERY area of
your life. And believe it or not, it
begins with the support (or lack
thereof) you have and with whom
you associate.

Have you heard the saying 'It's not
what you know, it's WHO you know'?

It's true!!!!

Ask yourself honestly if your top 5
associations RIGHT NOW can
support you and your dreams? Have
they done some of the things you
desire to do? Can they guide you
and bring you to NEW places? Here's
a saying that cements my point.....

'If you want to fly with the eagles;
you need to quit scratching with the
turkeys.' - Zig Ziglar

Now please understand that I'm NOT
saying to dump your life long friends.
BUT I AM saying to limit your time
with them. Choose a new set of top
5 associations that WILL inspire you
to new heights and will PUSH you
past your current comfort zones.

Yesterday on my Mindset Matters
call I talked for an hour on
Relationships and Associations. 
What they reflect, how to improve
them, how to MANIFEST more of
them in ALL areas of life, and much
much more.

If you're not a member of my Mindset
Matters
Program, TODAY is the day
to join.  I'll be sending out
yesterday's mp3 audio download link
very soon, not to mention the
transcripts from our Q&A call will be
hitting member's email boxes in the
next day or two!!  :-D 

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EVERYTHING that you desire it PAST
your comfort zone. That's where all
the good stuff is.  I'll meet you
there!!! ;-D

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EXPECT great things and then WATCH
what begins to happen!!!


BIG Hugs and Much Love,

Shelby Collinge
xoxo


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